The Freedom of Being Hated ✌️😉

I have no problem being hated.

Actually, I see the need to be liked as one of the greatest weaknesses.

Because when you’re busy being liked, you’re not busy being true.

We live in a world that rewards conformity with applause.

Smile the right way.

Say the right thing.

Fit in, blend in, tone down.

People learn to shrink to be accepted.

And the sad truth?

Most would rather be liked than respected.

Liked than free.

Liked than honest.

But not me.

You don’t have to like me.

You don’t have to agree with me.

Hell, you can even talk about me.

Because while you’re calculating who you need to please,

I’m busy building what you’ll never have the courage to start.

I don’t chase validation.

I chase truth.

I chase depth.

And that makes people uncomfortable—because truth always does.

And if that truth gets me hated?

Good.

That means it hit a nerve.

I’d rather be real and hated than hollow and adored.

So don’t get it twisted:

I’m not here to be liked.

I’m here to be heard.

To live loud.

To walk bold.

To take up space without apology.

And if that makes people uncomfortable?

Then I’m finally doing it right.

Silvia 😉